Ep 59: [Bonus] Back-to-School Grounding Guide
“When we’re holding space for both feelings (and everything in between), we add depth to our little ones’ emotional awareness. They get to experience these intense feelings of sadness and excitement and know that they can name them and move through them at their own pace and with someone they trust, which is you, my dear co-conspirator.”
Episode Summary:
In this bonus episode, you and I are going to explore two invitations to stay grounded amid the changes and transitions of back to school. Then, we’re going to unpack the sense of “here we go again” you might be feeling when it comes to both back to school and social justice action during these times.
Episode Outline
With strong intentions comes high expectations. Let’s unpack child development science of transitions and adjust our expectations accordingly.
Invitation #1: Practicing the both-and of transitions with your child.
How these mundane moments are what raising future change agents needs. You’re doing it!
The mundane moments in social justice organizing mobilizes us.
Invitation #2: Practicing “putting your oxygen mask on WITH your child.”
Resources Mentioned
Boycott, Divestment, Sanctions
How to donate to the Sudan refugee response
EP 51: Why Intentions Don’t Matter When You’re Triggered (in Parenting & Activism)
Executive function and self-regulation by The Center on the Developing Child
Ep 37: Where do I start “meeting my child where they’re at”?
Abolition. Feminism. Now. by Angela Y. Davis, Gina Dent, Erica R. Meiners, and Beth E. Richie
[BONUS] Ep 42: Somatic Warm-Ups Before You Demand a Gaza Ceasefire
Ep 45: Find Your Roles in Liberation: An Antidote to Cynicism & Despair
Three Social Justice Approaches to Having Hard Family Conversations
EP 53: Two Overlooked Actions to Soothe Your Parenting Triggers
Favorite Resource from Favorite Co-Conspirators:
Transitions Toolkit For Kids: Interactive Toolkits for Kyriarchy-Smashing Kids
Special Invitations
The In-Out-N-Through Program®
Shift from “Winging it” to “I got it!” Using:
A map for your triggers’ patterns
A centering toolkit specific to your nervous system (also kid friendly)
YOUR parenting strategies (aligned & informed)
YOUR re-parenting strategies
Advocacy skills (practiced & ready for action)
COME BACK TO CARE IS ON PATREON!
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