Ep 65: Power With With Your Neighbors: Pod Mapping

"Now that we’ve discussed how our upbringing and inner child wounds can complicate community building, let’s explore what pod mapping can teach us about building our support system."

 
 

Episode Summary:

In this episode, you and I are going to roll up our sleeves and dig into how to build a parenting support system. We’ll explore what social justice actions like pod mapping can teach us about how to build a parenting support system that’s based on trust, reciprocity, and interdependence. We’ll also unpack how inner child wounds can sometimes make this interdependence and community building work so uncomfortable and challenging. 

Full episode transcript here.

 

Episode Outline

  • A parenting support system is a necessity when systemic support is lacking.

  • How “marginalized” communities have survived and thrived outside systems in solidarity.

  • Asking for help is hard when you are already burnt out. 

  • Different ways your upbringing affects your comfort around asking for help.

  • Why reaching out to other families can stir up feelings of unworthiness, “being needy,” rejection, humiliation, shame, and ambiguous loss.

  • We contextualize- not pathologize- our discomfort or resistance around reaching out to people, asking them for help, receiving it, and relaxing into that support in our upbringing and inner child wounds.

  • Building your parenting support system: What pod mapping is and what it can teach us about identifying “our people” and cultivating trust and consent in the relationships.

 
 
 
 
 

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